Another half a year will be 40 years old, people to middle age, I am experiencing the biggest bump in the career, I am unemployed. 24 years in March, I got on the company's layoff list, after a month of pulling, in early April, I pack up and pack up, left the company, officially entered the unemployment army. More than half a year from now, in this half year, I have a lot of attempts, but also a lot of feelings, and you talk about it.
Separation negotiations
In the last two years, the company has been laying off employees, basically in the first half of the year to go a set. The beginning of the termination of cooperation with outsourcing, and then a variety of layoffs, and even technical executives also cut four or five people, colleagues said that in the end to the path of layoffs, so the company took the initiative to leave very few people. This time I was also expected to be laid off, but really to be laid off, the heart is not the taste. At the beginning of the human resources to find me to talk about, said that only N + 1 compensation, untaken annual leave into wages, and nothing else. I thought, the company is also too calculating, to be in the end of March before the end of me, so that I do not have to give me the year-end bonus. To clarify, the company just went public last year, so a full fiscal year is from April to March of the following year, so the year-end bonus calculation is also up to the end of March. The year-end appraisal issued by the company clearly states that there is no year-end bonus for leaving before the end of the appraisal cycle. By taking me out before March, the company is clearly trying to save money on the year-end bonus. This I absolutely can not agree, to drag also want to drag through March, I also clearly and manpower said, or the company forced to dismiss me, or not in March to say. The company's manpower is not very tough, and I said that the company does not have the intention of forced dismissal, this is not and you are negotiating? I said, "If it is a negotiation, I can't agree to this condition. After that, I left the meeting room and went back to my workstation to continue working.Here and we popularize a knowledge: we usually say N +1 are __ negotiation separation __, the meaning of negotiation we all understand it, that is, both sides to discuss, both sides agree. So when you talk to the manpower, you should strongly disagree with the conditions that are unfavorable to you. Another is forced dismissal, this situation is the best to do, go to labor arbitration to get 2N can be.After that, the company talked to me two or three times, but I insisted that I would leave after March, after I got my year-end bonus. During this period, I am also collecting some evidence to be used in labor arbitration. Even I have submitted information in the labor arbitration online, saved as a draft, if the company and I play hard to get, I will directly point to submit, immediately go to labor arbitration. In the end, the company did not make things difficult for me and agreed to my request. Also, at the beginning of April, I left the company and went home.
In this company has been working for more than 3 years, the company's colleagues are all 985211 graduates, although their education is very high, but the feeling of bookishness is too heavy, whether it is just graduated from the work of two or three years, or work for more than 10 years, or did not get rid of the body of the student gas, I look out of place in the middle of them. Since the school graduated, began to mix with the community, we must use the rules of the community, the body of the student gas should be removed on the removal of it. In many large factories, they use "so-and-so students" to address each other, even if they are laid off, they also use "graduation", which is the large factories to retain the student spirit, bookishness, so that it is easy to manage, if everyone is a social person, mixing with the community, then the management cost of these large factories to be significantly increased. If everyone is a social person, then the management cost of these big factories has to be greatly increased. Haha, this may also be the sadness of China's education, think about 100 years ago, the group of educated and knowledgeable young people, which is not a masculine spirit.
caseworker
In the period of time before leaving, I have nothing to brush a certain sound at night, often brush to the test social worker certificate video, said the test social worker certificate, to the community to work, work is stable, nine to five, not overtime, usually work is nothing, but also do not delay to pick up the children to and from school, the test is very simple, are multiple choice questions. This does make me very tempted, although the money is not much, but enough to eat and drink, things less close to home, but also to pick up the child to and from school, so I signed up. After the real enrollment, it was already mid-April, the exam is in mid-June, there are still two months to take three courses. In these two months, I spent all day watching the course videos online and brushing up on the questions. Really study up, found that this test is not easy, this is also a national exam, it is said that the pass rate is only 7%, the difficulty is really not small, and not like a certain voice said. Just like this was set back a time, the last I also only passed two, the rest of the door can only be the next year to test again.
These two months time, should be my unemployment after the most lost period of time, this time all day brush boss, cast resume, basically are read not return. Beijing's JAVA market is going to collapse? I remember that before the mask is not this way, bosses are active contact you. And now you take the initiative to cast, people are too lazy to take care of you, this is the reason for the environment? Or their own reasons? Dry so many years, their own in technology, management are quite good. Is the age of the reason? Hey, no matter what the reason, with dialectical analysis, is the internal and external causes. Continue to submit a resume to continue to look for work, slowly touch it.
Trying to get a private job.
After failing the social worker exam, I wondered if I could try to do something else when it was more difficult to find a job this year. Thinking that I had good technical skills, I registered my account on a few larger order-taking platforms and tried to take orders. Soon the platform pushed a single to me, let me go to chat, said the demand is very general. So I contacted the other party, found that the other party not far from where I live, we made an appointment to chat offline, offline meeting, I learned that the other party to do is a set of troops with the system, there is only a system requirements, specific needs do not have, there are only some directory menu. I said to the other side, you still refine the requirements, this now can not enter the development stage, too general. The other party said that it is still in the bidding stage, let me help him to get the tender, draw the architecture diagram. I also told the other party that I could do the technical part of the bid, but not the other parts. I went back to the other party and drew an architecture diagram for them, and they were quite satisfied. After a few days, the other party called me and said that he wanted me to accompany him to go on a business trip, saying that he was going to the army to talk with others about the bidding, and he would leave tomorrow. This is too sudden, call today, leave tomorrow, and did not say the ticket and accommodation problems, I refused the other party, and after that there has been no contact. This kind of single really can not do, still in the bidding stage, there is no results, and there is no way to talk to the other side of the money, I was also thinking and the other side to maintain a cooperative relationship, money or not put aside, but the other side and let me go on a business trip, and did not talk about the cost, which makes me unacceptable, although refused to go on a business trip, but I think if the other side to continue to contact me, I will still cooperate, but the other side has not been in touch with me, the termination of this single, the other side. The order was terminated.
Not long after, the platform pushed a single to me, the demand for this single to be clearer, that is, between the two systems to guide the data. This demand is relatively simple, and the other side of the video contact, chat is also very good, I feel that this single should be able to take. But then a few days and the other side of the in-depth understanding of the requirements, found that the two sets of system fields are not completely on the other side, I put the problem feedback to the other side, and even put the two sets of system fields listed, so that the other side to find the correspondence, the other side also realized the problem, and said that it is and the third-party system to talk to the people. The next step is a long wait, during which we also talk to each other about whether the project should be done or not, and the other party said that it should be done, but there is no progress behind. This project is also yellow.
I myself belong to the more conservative, in the order platform and did not pay membership fees, since there is no fee, people will not give you those clear demand, on the hands of the single can do. Now the order taking platform is really both ends of the earning, one side of the earning demand side, the other side of the earning developers. Some platforms to pay more than 3W of fees before receiving orders, I have not received a single, have not earned money, first to pay the platform more than 3W, the risk is too great. It's too much of a risk. My friend recommended it, but I don't have the resources for it. These two single did not take into account, the back did not try again.
lit. play with e-commerce
Failure to take private work, it came to the middle of July, the child's summer vacation, so take the family to go to Hulunbeier finished a circle, lasted half a month it. After coming back to think about always have to do something about it, is worrying at the time, a certain sound of a wave of push flow let me get up a failed electricity supplier. Often brush to a person at home to do e-commerce video, the video introduces to do no source, easy monthly income of more than ten thousand. First of all, and we say what is no source of electricity supplier it, is that you open a store, do not need to enter the goods, but go to so-and-so 88 to find the goods you want to sell, for example, you want to sell shoes, go to so-and-so 88 to go to the shoes, and then through the laying of the software to carry the details of the content of the goods to your store, your store will have the same products, and then you set the price, you can merchants to go to the sale of the user to order good, the order will also automatically synchronized to the software, the user will also be synchronized with the software to the user. Orders will also be automatically synchronized through the software to the supplier of so-and-so 88, you make the difference in the middle. It is very easy is not it, I also think it is, and a certain sound is to teach you how to do online store video, do not go to do it for fear of missing this wave of opportunities ah. So excited to register a business license, opened a store, according to the video, the new store no flow no orders, to use the loss of goods to start store, loss of goods is to sell at a loss, find a few dollars to produce goods, each single loss of a couple of dollars, so that there will soon be an order, I am also in accordance with this way, but the pit here is also very deep. Because the quality of a certain 88 goods, as the saying goes, cheap no good goods, good goods are not cheap, in order to out of a single, I am looking for seven or eight dollars of goods, with the loss of goods out of a single, the beginning of a single very quickly, very soon the store out of the experience points, but then returned, the quality of the goods does not work, the user returns a lot of this is the shortcomings of the online shopping it is invisible to the goods, in fact, it is in the sale of the picture, who's picture Shoot good, who's single more, when the user receives the goods, found that the quality is not good immediately will return. I see in a certain 88 on the picnic mat is good, lay to my store, the picture looks is quite good, the price is not expensive, I will hand over my daughter-in-law to buy a, the results sent to the home, open a look, and a plastic sheet no difference, this is simply a liar, I hurriedly put the picnic mat off the shelves. Hey, want to single to be cheap, but cheap no good goods, here is still a lot of doorway. There is a shopkeeper in the group is selling big pants, the results of their own buy a, to the home to open a look, directly to the throw.
The above is the problem of goods, if you intend to sell well, it is really important to choose their own goods to sell, online can not see the physical, I do not know how the quality, you sell poor products that is your problem. Another is the "cut leek" problem, the store did not open a few days, your phone will be burst, a group of operators to do daily harassment of you, the operation is that they help you run the store, store on their junk goods, through your store to sell out, and then they then commission, equal to earn two money, your store flow and single volume up! But your back your return rate is very high, you really want to sell things are not sold. This kind of operation on behalf of the operation, I simply did not care about them, they can not cut my leek. In fact, if you think about it carefully, they are so good at running a store, why not open your own store to sell goods? In the final analysis, it is still not good to do e-commerce, look at those who teach people to do e-commerce online, so good to do, you do your own sound on the line, why do you want to call others? Obviously cut leeks.
My store is basically dead, not much traffic. Messing around with it, the layaway software cost me 35, and the loss of goods was almost 20 or so, so basically I lost 50 or 60 bucks, which I wouldn't call a loss compared to others.
what course follow
More than half a year, basically just messing around, all directions have also tried, did not find a way out. During the period there have been a few interviews, basically small companies, and has not been successful, the interview feeling is also good, just do not want me, there is no way, slowly touch it. Continue to submit resumes, have interviews and actively prepare for interviews. I think the follow-up I still return to the technology, after all, dry more than 10 years, but how to go through the technology to realize, have not thought well, slowly to try it. This period of time should be my career and even my life in the most difficult period of time, slowly simmering it~~~.