The advantages of dating: you can immediately know the external conditions of the other party and a certain degree of understanding and security of their families and people, but does not involve the deeper spiritual needs of both sides.
The benefits of online dating: just to meet the spiritual needs of both sides, chatting process to know whether its character is compatible, but know nothing about its life, and even most do not even know what they look like.
The groups served by the two are also different. Blind dates usually serve marriageable young people of older age, while online dating groups range from underage to older. In recent years, the average age of the dating group is also decreasing year by year, the main reason is that modern young people are more independent and diversified in their choice of marriage and partner, and are willing to start thinking about marriage at a relatively young age, and the second reason is that the parents are staring at it more tightly, and may be affected by rumors of 30 million bachelors or 100 million older, and urge their children to start thinking about marriage at an early age, even though the first 18 years of their life are endless oppression.
cyberdate: Previously, someone roughly counted the probability of success (confirmed relationship or marriage) of online dating partners on social networking sites to be infinitely close to 0, a statistic that I was somewhat skeptical but not too surprised by. The method of statistics is too subjective, purely relying on artificial memory to track, and then according to their subsequent statements or the reality of the results to judge, so it is difficult to believe. It is not even as reliable as the data from dating companies. Not only rely on statistics, but also have arguments to stand on. For online dating on social networking sites, most of the ways they meet are similar, either in the same city of matchmaking postings, or the same city postings of redneck professional matchmaking leads. The problem lies in the fact that getting to know each other inside a group of people in need of a date also creates a state of mind where there are an infinite number of dates to choose from. I.e., you will find so many people inside the carriage that has already started that are the group that has already bought the tickets. This state of mind indirectly leads to a casual approach to relationships with each other, believing that one still has an infinite number of choices, and although this is true, it is inevitable that one will be caught in a vortex of desires, and the cycle will go on and on and on and on. It is not difficult to find that the counterpart pathway to online dating is actually moving the blind date to the network, only the former active, the latter passive. In accordance with the current dilemma of people do not add emoticons will not chat, this form will only become more and more.
cybersexualfundamentalThere is only one form, but the way is different, some people one step directly to find the red lady to lead the line, some people would rather lack the Buddha to wait for fate. The former than the latter more resources, the latter than the former success rate is higher. In fact, it is not difficult to understand, is the "threshold" and the number of groups. The above introduced the counterpart of the way of online dating, the following elaboration of the type of Buddhist.
Buddhist type of online datingThe Buddhist type can cover all the non-counterpart ways of online dating, such as social networking sites unintentionally a greeting to the back of the growing warm feelings, from the game to the perfect match to add each other's friends, from the wx group chat of the vast sea of people find each other interesting. All of them are a way of Buddhist online dating. It is undeniable that Buddhist online dating in the attitude towards feelings and pay generally speaking than the counterpart to be higher. It seems that each other know that it is not easy to meet in a sea of people, and treat their feelings more cherished. At the same time, it is also one of the biggest hidden problems, because the breadth of the network of people who rely on a certain hobby to get acquainted is its complexity. In addition to each other's interests are the same, the other can be said to be very different. So the Buddha system of online dating is not love, a love for ten thousand years. After all, a high degree of spiritual fit may be the closest to each other's souls.
arranged interview evaluate a proposed marriage partnerThis is one of the most widely circulated phrases in the dating world: "Dating is a way for the man who can't handle the woman who can't handle the woman who can't handle the woman who can't handle the woman". There's nothing wrong with it in general, but in fact, with the age of matchmaking decreasing and the education level generally increasing, it's so limiting that it's dissuaded many people who expect to meet people of the opposite sex in this way, for fear of being labeled as losers or leftover women. Compared to previous groups, today's matchmakers are more diverse, including a number of recent adults, unit management, and even industry elites or middle class level. You may ask why, I can only say that the happiness of singles is mostly the same, and the reasons for singles are different. Just adult may just be on the dating this old form of pleasure, think experience a also good, unit management may be because of the time problem, and the middle class may be no intention to marry, just forced to complete the task. This increases the difficulty of choosing a suitable partner in the dating market, so many young people nowadays choose to open the door directly to confirm that the other party is serious about dating or to complete the task, the heart has a bottom before making the next step.
There is also a lot of talk about blind dates, because when people who turned out to be irrelevant to each other are temporarily brought together, there are inevitably times when there is a huge difference in their outlook. Of course, there are also insincere people, for example, you have been pursuing for three months, the other party does not want to determine the meaning of the relationship, just say slow heat. (This is not to say that three months is enough, but just to elaborate on the fact that slow heat in the dating market does not add up, on the contrary, some people in the beginning will be directly passed.) There are also just met, not to chat a couple of sentences, and then began to open color jokes, want to make a move. Usually women are the majority of the victims, and after this nightmare, they will be completely dead to dating as a route, at least for a long time.
Of course, there are exceptions, one day you are in a hurry to complete the task of the heart, just a little grooming, listening to every time the parents say that the person is very good, very high, the job is very stable words (although most of them are not related). Just want to hurry to reach the destination, perfunctory a few words and then finished. But the accident is always inadvertently, you meet your destiny him in the dating place. He has a head of three seven side back black hair, angular face, knife-like jawline, deep love to a glance of a million years of eyes, far from your high-cool god, close to your blind date. Hands and feet are exuding this gentleman's charm, oh, this damn hormones. You think, so what my mom said is all true! He is my one & only! Well, well actually, not to beat you up too much, sometimes the perfect match always comes with other risks. As for what kind of risk lies in what kind of value you can give, realistic but true.